A lingam massage can be sensuous and exciting, but also calm and relaxing. Start with no intention of getting anywhere. If the man gets aroused very quickly, spread this energy with long strokes over the whole body. It can be supportive if he breathes deeply. Remind him to relax in case you notice him tense.
For many men it is new that their lingam is at the center of attention while they don’t have to do anything except for taking the time for their own sensations.
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